Articles

We Don’t Have to Save Every Starfish

We Don’t Have to Save Every Starfish

A reflection on compassion fatigue, locus of control and sustainable resilience in the helping professions By Chiu Lau, Clinical Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services If you work in a helping profession, you probably know the feeling. You...

The Right Seed in the Wrong Soil

The Right Seed in the Wrong Soil

By Chiu Lau, Clinical Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services I recently reconnected with a high school friend from temple, and it brought back a rush of bittersweet memories from my childhood. When I finished high school, I immediately left...

It’s Never “Just One” Thing

It’s Never “Just One” Thing

By Chiu Lau, Clinical Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services Artwork from pinterest I’m very close to publishing my debut children’s picture book The Little Light & Colour Thief. And lately, something pleasantly unexpected has been...

A Letter Every Teacher Needs to Read

A Letter Every Teacher Needs to Read

By Chiu Lau, Clinical Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services Artwork from pinterest As clinicians, we often meet children whose struggles are not loud, disruptive, or easily visible. They are the students who “look fine,” who follow the...

When Therapy Progress Is Hard to See

When Therapy Progress Is Hard to See

Understanding recovery in autistic and ADHD adults with complex trauma By Chiu Lau, Clinical Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services When your adult child is in therapy, it is natural to hope for clear signs that things are getting better....

Who Were You Before You Knew You Were Neurodivergent?

Who Were You Before You Knew You Were Neurodivergent?

By Chiu Lau, Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services For many adults, receiving a neurodivergent diagnosis can feel like a revelation. It is not simply a label; it is a framework that finally makes sense of a lifetime of experiences that...