A reflection on compassion fatigue, locus of control and sustainable resilience in the helping professions By Chiu Lau, Clinical Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services If you work in a helping profession, you probably know the feeling. You...
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The Right Seed in the Wrong Soil
By Chiu Lau, Clinical Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services I recently reconnected with a high school friend from temple, and it brought back a rush of bittersweet memories from my childhood. When I finished high school, I immediately left...
It’s Never “Just One” Thing
By Chiu Lau, Clinical Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services Artwork from pinterest I’m very close to publishing my debut children’s picture book The Little Light & Colour Thief. And lately, something pleasantly unexpected has been...
What Is Parts Work? Understanding the “Many Sides” of You
By Chiu Lau, Clinical Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services Artwork from pinterest Have you ever felt torn between two choices, like one part of you wants to rest while another says you should keep pushing? Or noticed a harsh inner critic...
Understanding Perception Anxiety: When the Mind Feels Under Watch
By Chiu Lau, Clinical Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services Artwork from pinterest In an increasingly visible and socially evaluated world, many people experience a subtle but powerful form of anxiety that isn’t always named in clinical...
A Letter Every Teacher Needs to Read
By Chiu Lau, Clinical Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services Artwork from pinterest As clinicians, we often meet children whose struggles are not loud, disruptive, or easily visible. They are the students who “look fine,” who follow the...
When Therapy Progress Is Hard to See
Understanding recovery in autistic and ADHD adults with complex trauma By Chiu Lau, Clinical Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services When your adult child is in therapy, it is natural to hope for clear signs that things are getting better....
Who Were You Before You Knew You Were Neurodivergent?
By Chiu Lau, Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services For many adults, receiving a neurodivergent diagnosis can feel like a revelation. It is not simply a label; it is a framework that finally makes sense of a lifetime of experiences that...
Radical Rest: Why Pushing Through Can Make Chronic Illness Worse
By Chiu Lau, Psychologist & Founder of Possibilities Psychological Services Before I was diagnosed with ME/CFS, I was told by well-intentioned people, friends, personal trainers, even doctors, that exercise was the solution to my “tiredness.” If I just tried my...








